Dear Sister

 

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SUMMARY

Dear Sister is a collection of notes written from the perspective of an older brother to his younger sister.  

The boy's parents ask him to write notes to his brand new baby sister for her baby book, and he is not thrilled about getting a new sibling.  His parents ask him to do this for years, and so he continues to write notes and draw pictures to his little sister.  He doesn't sugarcoat anything, which adds a true element of honesty and also a little humor.  His opinion on his little sister changes throughout the book, as he is originally not thrilled, but later learns the joys of having a sibling.  

APA CITATION

McGhee, Alison. Dear Sister. Atheneum Children's Books, 2018.

MY OPINION & RECOMMENDATIONS

This book is unique and precious.  I think this collection of notes can be so humbling and relatable to so many students who are also going through this same life transition.  I would probably recommend this for late elementary, purely because of having to step into someone else's shoes that might be difficult for younger students.  I love how this book shows so much care and consideration to a new member of the family being born and welcomed in.  This story is so cute and deserves to be read!

PROFESSIONAL REVIEW

Over the years, a boy’s letters to his younger sister reveal his changing impressions of her and their relationship in this epistolary graphic novel.

For the unnamed 8-year-old boy, life was less complicated before his baby sister was born. Now his parents (aka “the wardens”) ask him to write cards and letters, sometimes with accompanying drawings, to his new sibling. Beginning each note with “Dear Sister,” the boy recounts his life with honesty, expressing his frustration with her incessant crying, having to read her the same book for “the 763rd time,” and his lack of privacy. Mixed in are several apology letters that reveal that the wardens fail to understand his perspective. Only his friend Joe offers diversion. Signing his initial letters “From, Brother,” he informs his sister that he’s holding out on the love part until he’s made up his mind. During a 10-year-period, however, his letters gradually reflect his growing affection for her. When Joe moves away, it’s the sister, who’s always adored her big brother, who understands his pain. And as their friendship and affection grow, perhaps the brother enjoys connecting with—and yes, reading to—his sister after all. While books on sibling rivalry abound, this volume brings freshness to the topic with McGhee’s gentle humor and poignant scenarios (though adults may respond more strongly than kids). Bluhm heightens both with childlike sketches for the brother’s drawings and emotive illustrations for the storyline.

Dear indeed for preteens facing big changes and adults with fond memories. (Graphic fiction. 10-13)

McGhee, Alison. “Dear Sister.” Kirkus Reviews, Caitlyn Dlouhy/Atheneum, 2 Oct. 2018.